WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME you were able to get your wife or girlfriend to watch an adult movie with you, with any amount of interest or enthusiasm?

You probably discovered long ago the sad reality (well, sad for guys, anyway) that porn doesn't appeal to women the same way it does to men. Women don't get turned on the same way. In fact, it often does nothing more than piss them off. That's the bad news.

Now for the good news: You can still get your wife or girlfriend to enjoy watching porn with you, as long as you go about it the right way. Going about it the right way means starting with movies that are of interest to them, from their female perspective.

One such approach is offering to show them "chick flick" type stuff, porn made by women, for women. The problem with that type of fare is that you as a guy are going to find it deadly boring. It will also be hard to transition smoothly from that to the kind of material that really turns you on.

The more effective way for most guys to get their female significant others to enjoy watching porn with them is to start by offering to show them something where the basic human interest element is so strong that they will jump at the chance, with enthusiasm.

Cum Eating Granny would be one example. "Yeah, it's kinda gross but it's really funny." That's the way you want to present it to her. Nine times out of ten, curiosity – bolstered by the promise of having a good time – will get the best of her.

The next step is critically important, if you want to achieve the desired end result. Take the trouble to set the stage, so to speak, for a genuine romantic interlude that can become a tradition in your life as a couple.

Get her favorite snack out, turn the lights down low. Play her favorite music in the background, if you think she would like that. Tell her you heard it's important to "loosen up" a bit, physically, to open the mind to new information. Warm up by giving her a neck and back massage.

As the movie is going on – and immediately afterwards – talk to your woman about what you're seeing together. ASK her to tell you her FEELINGS about what she is watching. ("How do you FEEL about that?" Seriously. You really have to ask her this question, several times.)

LISTEN to everything she tells you and feed it back to her, for confirmation, line by line. "So what I hear you telling me is that you think Felicia is gross but you admire her for her courage to act out her fantasies and her courage to tell her partners exactly what she really wants?"

The next week, around the same time, propose another movie to her, something with a different theme, but with the same basic human interest appeal. It could be about the sex lives of midgets (Famous Midgets #5) or extremely hairy women (Big Hairy Beavers) or sex in an exotic locale, like India (India Fuck Fest).

"You know, I heard Oprah saying somewhere that couples can really get to understand each other better when they make the effort to create fun and romantic interludes like this on a regular basis." Put it in your own words.

Between the midgets and the Indians and the trannies or whatever, start to slip in some of the movies that you like best because you think they're really hot.

Make sure you maintain the atmosphere, the massage and the communication. After a few weeks, you'll have her eating out of your hand, giving you the greatest head you've ever gotten, in rhythm with your favorite pornstars.

Start by getting one of the DVDs recommended above or at least doing the download to your computer, if you can watch it with your main squeeze that way.

Your life may never be the same and you will never look back. Take it from someone who's gotten good results with this. It's worth a try. As an added bonus, you may discover that your life beyond your sex life will improve, too!


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