The uniquely-shaped Feeldoe When my girlfriend and I first began to entertain ideas about strap-on sex, we did our research, shopped around, and after wasting money on a cheap strap on, we finally decided on a Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock strap-on set. And while the didos were great and the harness didn’t slip, anyone who uses strap-ons will tell you – they’re a pain in the ass to get on! There you are, in the heat of passion, in the thralls of ecstasy, and you know what you want and begin begging your partner to fuck you numb… and after 3 minutes minutes of watching her fit the dildo, hop into the harness, adjust it, fiddle with the straps and finally climb on the bed, raring to go, you found you’ve started wondering if sticking with oral sex would’ve been easier.

After seeing this pattern -- both where I was the one eagerly waiting for the fuck or the one fumbling as quickly as possible with the strap on -- I kept think there has to be a better alternative, a more natural alternative, and that was when I stumbled upon the Feeldoe.

The Feeldoe was made by women, with women in mind, and with it’s sensual curves and sleek design filling my brain, I went to bed night after night, giddy with the thought of how GREAT sex would be when the Feeldoe, how natural and sensual. The basic principal behind this toy is that it is a strapless strap-on –yup, you heard it. A dildo that could be worn without a harness! The Feeldoe combines two great ideas – the double-sided dildo, and the strap-on – into one great-looking toy. It’s essentially an “L” shaped double-sided dildo, where the smaller end is a “bulb” that is inserted into the ass or pussy of the wearer, and the length extends out to penetrate the partner. If they had a realistic-looking version, any female wearer would look like she had a real cock! (And for a kinky girl like me, that’s definitely a turn on!). I was excited by the idea of being penetrated while penetrating my partner, and couldn’t wait to get my hands on one.

The day I finally got my Feeldoe, I couldn’t wait to get it up inside me. We purchased the slim size and I when I tried it on, bulb-end inside, I was glad I have fairly strong Kegel muscles (and thighs that touch!). The dildo is a solid piece of silicone and has a decent amount of weight to it – definitely more weight than I imagine most of us are used to carrying around in our pussies! But the bulb fits quite nicely inside, and it was a bit of a thrill to walk around with my new, blue cock! I couldn’t wait to get together with my girlfriend and formally initiate our new sex toy.

Finally, the moment was upon us, the fucking could commence, the world was at my finger-tips… and we discovered the angle was all wrong. Neither of us are <i>skinny</i> -- we're curvy women -- and our curves combined with the acute angle of the dildo made it difficult for me to get the right angle of penetration. The dildo-end turned up too far and I can tell you it would be a vast, VAST improvement if the dildo end simply went straight out at an angle perpendicular to the bulb end. We tried a few different positions and we did find a good position that involved me laying perpendicular to her and taking her in the ass. This way, the upward angle was less of an issue and I was able to enjoy taking her with hips rockin’ away.

The other complaint that I had with it – aside from the angle – might be something limited to me. But I found that the times we were able to get the angle right, it was much harder than I imagined for me to cum, as the wearer. I think this is due to the concentration it takes to keep the bulb clenched up inside you. The wetter I got, the harder it was to keep the bulb from slipping out, and the closer I came to orgasm, the more my kegel wanted to relax. But again this might just be a me thing and not a product flaw. I’m sure some girls have kegels of steel no mater how close they are to orgasm!

I do have to say, though, I LOVED the closeness this product allows. You can get right against one another, flesh to flesh without any leather in the way. And it’s so much quicker to put on (or in, as it were) as there are no straps to deal with. This product can also be great for straight couples, either where the woman likes double penetration (her partner can were the Feeldoe in his ass), or the man likes to have that prostate nudged. So it isn’t JUST a lesbian product, even though this review focuses on that aspect.

So if you and your partner are quite petite, I’d say this’ll be a GREAT product for you, but if you’re a couple of curvaceous girls, save your money on this one and stick with your harness – our harness is still our best friend.

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